Sex.

Sex is always so important to everyone, but why? I mean everybody is always afraid of dying a virgin, but why? What if sex is not everything it is made out to be? I mean people always tell us that it is this great pleasurable experience, but what if it is just like....blah and everybody who ever has sex just helps build up the lie because they have nothing better to do in life. I suppose that is a great leap of faith to believe that EVERYONE who has ever had sex is lying and it's not really great, but it is not impossible. I know that we don't NEED sex because I know many many people over 50 who are still virgins, but if we don't need it then why do we want it so bad?

Puberty.

We all eventually get to it. It is an unavoidable subject which I'm 99.9% positive everybody talks about SOMETIME in their life. I feel sorry for some girls who never have their periods due to fertility problems. I can not imagine never being able to have children, it would break my heart. I think women who get abortions take the other people for granted. There are more than 100,000,000 women out there who would LOVE to have a baby. So the 100,000,000 other women out there who DON'T want children, decide they are going to kill their baby, instead of giving it to the ones who can't have a child. It's like having the ability to learn but not using it, whereas a mentally retarded person does not and will never get the same chance to learn as we do. But that is getting of subject. Puberty is and isn't a happy thing. I mean you get excited because you're growing up! But then there are all the bad things that come with it such as liking guys, your first period, p.m.s., cramps, bloating...etc. I can't tell you what it's like for a guy, I'm sure it's equally as bad in it's own way. Many people look at having you're period as a curse, I see it as a blessing. It shows that you're body is ready to have a baby. When I am on my period I am just thinking "Why the hell do I have to have my period?" yet when I did not have my period for three months I got very worried, because this could mean that I would have fertility problems in the future, and that above all things is the LEAST thing I want. That is another part of puberty. Girls turn into women and become very maternal. Boys, understand that when a girl says she wants to have a baby right now she means "I want to have a baby, but I know in actuality that if I were to be pregnant at this time it would not be a good idea." she is not asking you to get her pregnant. This is just an adolescents maternal instincts kicking in. I have many guy friends and I am very maternal with all of them, you can ask them. I constantly remind them that I love them and I want them to be happy and I want them to grow up to be strong, free-willed, self-respecting men. I know that boys at this age are very egotistical but with age their ego withers and so starting now building their ego is probably better than trying to build up what has already been torn down.
Girls: If you want to know anything more about guys i strongly recommend reading For Young Women Only: What You Need to Know about How Guys Think.

Stereotyping Librarians

People always stereotype librarians as these stuck up "I'm better than you" old women. You know, I've met some nice librarians in my time, and none of them were stuck up "I'm better than you" people. Yes I have met some old women librarians but I've also met men librarians! At the library here in Big Island they don't even ask you to keep quiet, you don't even have to whisper, everyone is noisy. If you don't like your librarian then maybe it's not all librarians maybe it's just your library. So if you find you're having a problem with the people in your area then stop complaining and FIND ANOTHER LIBRARY!

Kidnapped and Love

Isn't is odd how some people can actually fall in love with their captor? I mean honestly how do you fall in love with the person who took away your everything? I do suppose it varys depending on how they were kidnapped and what happened and I can't even understand because I have never been kidnapped, but even people have fallen in love with their rapists. I suppose for some one like my aunt it could be because they were the only person who ever had shown an interest in them. No my aunt did not fall in love with a captor or rapist, but she lives alone and only liked one guy in her whole life.