Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Puberty.

We all eventually get to it. It is an unavoidable subject which I'm 99.9% positive everybody talks about SOMETIME in their life. I feel sorry for some girls who never have their periods due to fertility problems. I can not imagine never being able to have children, it would break my heart. I think women who get abortions take the other people for granted. There are more than 100,000,000 women out there who would LOVE to have a baby. So the 100,000,000 other women out there who DON'T want children, decide they are going to kill their baby, instead of giving it to the ones who can't have a child. It's like having the ability to learn but not using it, whereas a mentally retarded person does not and will never get the same chance to learn as we do. But that is getting of subject. Puberty is and isn't a happy thing. I mean you get excited because you're growing up! But then there are all the bad things that come with it such as liking guys, your first period, p.m.s., cramps, bloating...etc. I can't tell you what it's like for a guy, I'm sure it's equally as bad in it's own way. Many people look at having you're period as a curse, I see it as a blessing. It shows that you're body is ready to have a baby. When I am on my period I am just thinking "Why the hell do I have to have my period?" yet when I did not have my period for three months I got very worried, because this could mean that I would have fertility problems in the future, and that above all things is the LEAST thing I want. That is another part of puberty. Girls turn into women and become very maternal. Boys, understand that when a girl says she wants to have a baby right now she means "I want to have a baby, but I know in actuality that if I were to be pregnant at this time it would not be a good idea." she is not asking you to get her pregnant. This is just an adolescents maternal instincts kicking in. I have many guy friends and I am very maternal with all of them, you can ask them. I constantly remind them that I love them and I want them to be happy and I want them to grow up to be strong, free-willed, self-respecting men. I know that boys at this age are very egotistical but with age their ego withers and so starting now building their ego is probably better than trying to build up what has already been torn down.
Girls: If you want to know anything more about guys i strongly recommend reading For Young Women Only: What You Need to Know about How Guys Think.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

you know actually not much happened to me during puberty. like really i woke up and it was like woah sot of thing.
and i disagree with the what guys think thing, just so you know.
(that doesnt mean im upset, im just saying an opinion)

Audra May said...

Well, besides the obvious blood gushing from my vagina, i just got bitchier each day and more irritable oh and I didn't and don't know how to think. Don't know what I want or anything like that. It's hell@