The Answer

Last night I got upset with Liam for not talking to me. Okay, now I admit I was acting stupid last night. Maybe I misinterpreted his feelings but from my point of view it seemed like he was angry with me. This makes me mad...most things Liam does just upset me but him getting angry over me being upset just makes me mad.
Now I apologize if he wasn't angry but even if he wasn't this is something he should know because he has done it before.

Why is it okay for me to be wrong and not him? If he gets upset with me I do not get angry with him because that's rude it is just an excuse for an argument and I'm not going to do that. I'm going to apologize for upsetting him.
Apparently though, if I get upset over something he does, he didn't do anything wrong, it's just me and my crazy mind looking for an excuse to be mad at him.
I will not be mad at you for no reason!! Obviously if I'm upset it's something I feel strongly about and I need to talk to him about it and not just hope it goes away. By him getting angry when I'm upset it's feeding the flame, begging for an argument to ensue. I don't want to argue with him. Another thing he needs to know is that if I'm upset and he gets angry and makes me angry, the things I say when I'm angry generally aren't the way I feel and think in the long run, it's temporary anger and it doesn't mean as much.
I'm not upset over our conversation last night because it was stupid. I guess that's all I have to say. Maybe it's just because he's a guy, guy's a prone to getting all defensive and mad when an issue like that comes up, they just aren't as sensible as women.